I feel like dating in america is hard, because I don’t see lots of social interraction. I think that if there was more interraction people wouldn’t care about your race or your body, you appearances, they will just date you for who you are. I think here people are way too superficial.
YES!
I know this one. People blame capitalism but it’s people who put pressure on others here. Americans are completely insecure beings. No we’re not as social as people from other countries. You can tell because Americans need to get blitzed (drunk) before they can talk to anyone of the opposite sex and usually sex happens before the couple is aquainted.
I’ve dated a few guys from other countries. Here’s the difference:
-American guys cannot tolerate their alcohol. Many times they’re literally obsessed with impressing their friends by showing how little class they have, even with the girl around. They’re lude and obnoxious. But a lot of American guys can’t even use a krappy pick up line until he does 3 shots of something. And when they do, American guys are so full of $h*t. They don’t tell interesting stories, they don’t flirt, they don’t tell jokes—they frickin’ lie! Not to mention, it’s like doing business here. The guys go through this laundry list of assets, exaggerated of course to impress her. So it almost becomes a chore. All I care about is whether or not he has an education, a job and how he treats me. Very simple.
-Guys from other countries typically have an act. Some are charming, others a bit flirtatious. some countries are more open towards sex; however most countries- a guy wouldn’t demand that a girl have sex with him right away because it looks bad in their own eyes. They don’t want to be seen with a tramp.
So yes, it’s nice to be treated really well without being pressured to put out by a drunken bafoon.