….However,
She refuses to fly economy class, and so requires nearly $4,000 USD for a business class ticket.
Do you think she is being unfair to me, just because I have money?
I mean, she is supposed to love me.
Would I be covering all my bases by sending only half the amount, and telling her that if she really wants to fly business, that she can find the other half from her own family?
Thanks in advance for your answers.
There are so many scary stories involving American men getting mixed up with Russian brides…you need to make it clear that YOU control the money…not her.
I’ve known two guys that got Russian brides….one was taken for all his money (she cleaned out the bank account while he was at work one day, including bouncing their rent check), and the other has been happily married to his bride for about 8 years now. The first guy allowed the woman equal access to a joint account…the second guy controls the money, and has always made it clear to his Russian bride that that’s just the way men do things in America…
The only other story I want to relate to you is when a guy invited a Russian bride to come to his home….Upon arriving in the states, she got off at the wrong airport and called him to wire her some money for a hotel and new ticket. Then she did it again at another terminal. Finally she tried it at a third terminal, and he got suspicious enough to call the authories. He was told that the woman was with another man, and that they were picking up several wired funds at the offices – in other words, she not only got him for money, but at least a couple of other guys too….caveat emptor, sir, let the buyer beware….